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Feelings word list as a tool for Emotional Intelligence
One of the challenges in working with feelings and learning “emotional intelligence” is learning “vocabulary”. With the help of a larger number of words for feelings, we can describe emotions in a more differentiated way. These lists help to lay a foundation for a differentiated awareness of our “emotional world”. When we have the words to express our feelings, we can communicate more empathically.
These feelings word lists are based on Nonviolent Communication (NVC) according to Marshall Rosenberg. If you haven’t heard of NVC, you can watch Marshall himself explain some basics here. The lists are categorized into:
- Pleasant (“positive”) feeling words, which we can perceive when our needs are met.
- Unpleasant (“negative”) feeling words that we can perceive when our needs are not met.
- “Unreal” feeling words including those we often use as “feelings” in everyday life, but are not “real” feelings. Rather, they contain a thought or an evaluation, or assign responsibility for a feeling to others.
Sources:
1. Rosenberg, M. (2016). Nonviolent Communication: A Language of Life. Available at https://www.amazon.de/-/en/Marshall-B-Rosenberg/dp/3955715728
Feelings Word List – structured in three categories
Pleasant Feelings
(When feelings are met)
– Calmness –
peaceful, quiet, rested, secure, relaxed, grounded, balanced, recovered, calm
– Gratitude –
grateful, blessed, worry-free, deeply moved, hopeful, liberated
– Love –
touched, connected, alive, passionate
– Happiness –
overjoyed, happy, convivial, glad, bright, elated, fun-loving, satisfied, blissful, joyful, fulfilled, free
– Curiousness –
interested, surprised, inquisitive, amazed, attentive, deepened, fascinated, motivated, excited, clear, wide awake, present
– Strength –
confident, independent, powerful, dynamic, carefree, stable, consolidated, brave, strong
– Joy –
delighted vivid, inspired, enthusiastic, peppy, motivated, easy, optimistic, light-hearted, loose, inspired
– Enthusiasm –
excited, hilarious, energized, ecstatic, jubilant, euphoric, enraptured, turned up, exuberant
Unpleasant Feelings
(When feelings are not met)
– Lonliness –
alone, lonely
– Shame –
timid, embarrassed, shy, insecure
– Fear –
anxious, troubled, fearful, terrified
– Fright –
horrified, petrified, shocked, shaken
– Guilt –
guilty, obligated, responsible
– Disgust –
repelled, disgust, nauseated
– Helplessness –
powerless, empty, despondent, desperate, hopeless, fragile, paralysed, inert, lifeless
– Indifference –
indifferent, tired, weak, listless, numb, depressed, melancholic, impassive
– Sadness –
upset pathetic, grouchy, moody, miserable, sad, unhappy, uncomfortable, gloomy, lousy
– Frustration –
grumpy, tense, disillusioned, restless, stressed, uneasy, torn, bitter, frustrated
– Anger –
angry, displeased, incensed, feisty, aggressive, raging, agitated, furious, enraged
Unreal/Mental Feelings/ Pseudo-feelings
– Poor –
stupid, inadequate, incompetent, insignificant, inappropriate, unimportant, unworthy, dirty
– Rejection –
repelled, devalued, rejected, dropped, used, less valued, deceived, let down, isolated, ridiculed, left behind, misunderstood, not accepted, not taken seriously, unappreciated, unsupported, unheeded, undesirable, unheard, unloved, unseen, unintentional, unrespected, abandoned, denied, neglected
– Accusation –
exploited, pressed, threatened, controlled, molested, offended, lied to, mothered, used, accused, protected (failed), evaporated, cowed, intimidated, locked, constrained, reduced, deceived, ignored, mislead, sidelined, provoked, tricked, revised, overused, disregarded, scammed, adopted
– Attack –
defeated, robbed, assailed, cheated, dominated, muffled, forced, ripped out, fooled, lured in to the trap, trampled, manipulated, disregarded, abused, cut down, put under pressure, repressed, misunderstood, run over , overwhelmed, fucked over, hated
